She is my precious gems, pure gold, or the “pearl of great value”
Thank you mama for forwarding this eye opening letter.. Not to cause any disruptions here in FB but to just spread a heartfelt letter from a very modest writer...
read only when you are free...its long but worth reading ..
March 7th, 2007
By Joanna Francis Writer,
Journalist - USA
Between the Israeli assault on Lebanon and the Zionist “war on terror,” the Muslimworld is now center stage in every American home. I see the carnage, death anddestruction that have befallen Lebanon, but I also see something else: I see you. Ican’t help but notice that almost every woman I see is carrying a baby or has childrenaround her. I see that though they are dressed modestly, their beauty still shinesthrough. But it’s not just outer beauty that I notice. I also notice that I feel somethingstrange inside me: I feel envy. I feel terrible for the horrible experiences and warcrimes that the Lebanese people have suffered, being targeted by our common enemy.But I can’t help but admire your strength, your beauty, your modesty, and most of all,your happiness.
Yes, it’s strange, but it occurred to me that even under constant bombardment, youstill seemed happier than we are, because you were still living the natural lives ofwomen. The way women have always lived since the beginning of time. It used to bethat way in the West until the 1960s, when we were bombarded by the same enemy.Only we were not bombarded with actual munitions, but with subtle trickery andmoral corruption.
Through Temptation
They bombarded us Americans from Hollywood, instead of from fighter jets or withour own American-made tanks. They would like to bomb you in this way too, afterthey’ve finished bombing the infrastructure of your countries. I do not want this tohappen to you. You will feel degraded, just like we do. You can avoid this kind ofbombing if you will kindly listen to those of us who have already suffered seriouscasualties from their evil influence. Because everything you see coming out of Hollywood is a pack of lies, a distortion of reality, smoke and mirrors. They presentcasual sex as harmless recreation because they aim to destroy the moral fabric of thesocieties into which they beam their poisonous programming. I beg you not to drinktheir poison. There is no antidote for it once you have consumed it. You may recoverpartially, but you will never be the same. Better to avoid the poison altogether than totry to heal from the damage it causes.
They will try to tempt you with their titillating movies and music videos, falselyportraying us American women as happy and satisfied, proud of dressing likeprostitutes, and content without families. Most of us are not happy, trust me. Millionsof us are on anti-depressant medication, hate our jobs, and cry at night over the menwho told us they loved us, then greedily used us and walked away. They would like todestroy your families and convince you to have fewer children. Theydo this by presenting marriage as a form of slavery, motherhood as acurse, and being modest and pure as old-fashioned. They want you tocheapen yourself and lose your faith. They are like the Serpenttempting Eve with the apple. Don’t bite.
Self-Value
I see you as precious gems, pure gold, or the “pearl of great value” spoken of in theBible (Matthew 13: 45). ” All women are pearls of great value, but some of us havebeen deceived into doubting the value of our purity. Jesus said: “Give not that whichis holy unto the dogs, neither cast your pearls before swine, lest they trample themunder their feet, and turn again and rend you” (Matthew 7: 6). Our pearls arepriceless, but they convince us that they’re cheap. But trust me; there is no substitutefor being able to look in the mirror and seeing purity, innocence and self-respectstaring back at you.
The fashions coming out of the Western sewer are designed to make you believe thatyour most valuable asset is your sexuality. But your beautiful dresses and veils areactually sexier than any Western fashion, because they cloak you in mystery and showself-respect and confidence. A woman’s sexuality should be guarded from unworthyeyes, since it should be your gift to the man who loves and respects you enough tomarry you. And since your men are still manly warriors, they deserve no less thanyour best. Our men don’t even want purity anymore. They don’t recognize the pearlof great value, opting for the flashy rhinestone instead. Only to leave her too!Your most valuable assets are your inner beauty, your innocence, and everything thatmakes you who you are. But I notice that some Muslim women push the limit and tryto be as Western as possible, even while wearing a veil (with some of their hairshowing). Why imitate women who already regret, or will soon regret, their lostvirtue? There is no compensation for that loss. You are flawless diamonds. Don’t letthem trick you into becoming rhinestones. Because everything you see in thefashion magazines and on Western television is a lie. It is Satan’s trap. It is fool’s gold.
A Woman’s Heart
I’ll let you in on a little secret, just in case you’re curious: pre-marital sex is not eventhat great. We gave our bodies to the men we were in love with, believing that thatwas the way to make them love us and want to marry us, just as we had seen ontelevision growing up. But without the security of marriage and the sure knowledgethat he will always stay with us, it’s not even enjoyable! That’s the irony. It was just awaste. It leaves you in tears.Speaking as one woman to another, I believe that you understand that already.Because only a woman can truly understand what’s in another woman’s heart. Wereally are all alike. Our race, religion or nationalities do not matter. A woman’s heartis the same everywhere. We love. That’s what we do best. We nurture our familiesand give comfort and strength to the men we love. But we American women havebeen fooled into believing that we are happiest having careers, our own homes inwhich to live alone, and freedom to give our love away to whomever we choose.That is not freedom. And that is not love.Only in the safe haven of marriage can a woman’s body and heart be safe to love.Don’t settle for anything less. It’s not worth it. You won’t even like it and you’ll likeyourself even less afterwards. Then he’ll leave you.
Self-Denial
Sin never pays. It always cheats you. Even though I have reclaimed my honor,there’s still no substitute for having never been dishonored in the first place. WeWestern women have been brainwashed into thinking that you Muslim women areoppressed. But truly, we are the ones who are oppressed; slaves to fashions thatdegrade us, obsessed with our weight, begging for love from men who do notwant to grow up. Deep down inside, we know that we have been cheated.We secretly admire and envy you, although some of us will not admit it. Please do notlook down on us or think that we like things the way they are. It’s not our fault. Mostof us did not have fathers to protect us when we were young because our familieshave been destroyed. You know who is behind this plot.
Don’t be fooled, my sisters. Don’t let them get you too. Stay innocent and pure. WeChristian women need to see what life is really supposed to be like for women. Weneed you to set the example for us, because we are lost. Hold onto your purity.Remember: you can’t put the toothpaste back in the tube. So guard your “toothpaste”carefully!
I hope you receive this advice in the spirit in which it is intended: the spirit offriendship, respect, and admiration. From your Christian sister with love
* This article is republished with the kind permission of the author. The original canbe found on Crescent and the Cross. Joanna Francis is a writer and journalist. Shemanages her own blog.
Have a pleasant day,
nina
Cameron Highland : Traffic madness 
From Left : Wayne, Papa, Me & Ikki
From Left: Mama, Ikki, Papa & Me
Check it out - aaaa... heaven
Christmas Lights @ Cameron Highlands Resort..
After Dinner We Drove to Tanah Rata and had coffee @ Starbucks, Cameron Highlands. its not that far though.. give it 10 - 15 minutes from our hotel.
After Dinner We Drove to Tanah Rata and had coffee @ Starbucks, Cameron Highlands. its not that far though.. give it 10 - 15 minutes from our hotel.
Papa & Me @ Starbucks, Tanah Rata Cameron Highlands
Breakfast @ the Dining Room
We Went for a drive and yea.. the above photo is what you'll see most on the road. The Jeepers Creepers Jeep? Truck?
Lunch at the Jim Thompson Tea Room
Followed by tea break. 
Mama 
